The other day, I read an article in The Star regarding the long-debated subject that's still a taboo to certain groups of people. When I went out to yamcha with Joyce just now, she brought up this topic too...she even told me that one of our friends got deflowered recently. (Woo...something unexpected!) Well, I shall start of by asking you readers a simple question. Does it really matter if a girl is not a fresh blossom anymore (meaning already deflowered)? Oops, before you perverts start to assume things, I'm not talking about myself ok! LOL... This is just a general topic where almost everyone wants to know about.
So, when I read that article, it got me thinking again. Isn't it unfair that a girl should remain a fresh flower but the same thing doesn't appear to the male population? The article included surveys carried out on a few blokes and most of them prefer their future wife to be a virgin. Oh please don't get me wrong. It's not about the issue of deflowering. It's about the men's opinions. Yes...I believe there are still many good men out there (oh really?) who won't go around and simply deflower innocent girls BUT there are LOTS of men who do that.
Oh come one, let's just be realistic ok! It's like...if a man fcuks around, then isn't it ridiculous that he still expects his other half to be a virgin? If you men really want a fresh blossom, then you shouldn't be sleeping around. Well, does that make any sense? It's like... if every guy does that, as in fcuking around, where else can we ever find fresh flowers??? Hmm...unless the girls opt for the plastic surgeries (Heard of Vaginoplasty, Labiaplasty and Hymenoplasty?) to reconstruct the whole thing but that's a different case already.
Nowadays, it seems that the younger generation doesn't even need to fall in love to be deflowered, so to speak. Try asking a young school girl whether it's about dignity or an opportunity when it comes to the flower issue...you'll be shocked to hear what she says! So, is preserving the flower still an issue? Well, I know it's still a taboo to religious groups and certain people, and I wouldn't want to stress on that. My question is, why is it that nobody seems to care whether the blokes are still fresh or not when it comes to this matter? It could be a real big issue if anyone ever finds out about a girl who's not a fresh blossom anymore. But, does anyone make any noise if the guy they've known for ages is not a virgin anymore? The truth is nobody cares. Some would even encourage or prefer her man to be an "experienced" one. Now, isn't that a clear discrimination towards the ladies?
So, is the flower issue important to you? Some would argue that it's best to leave the past alone if there's future with their significant other half. Well, I'm not saying that the flower issue isn't important. It's just that, before you remind yourself about your choice of whether to choose a fresh flower or not (applicable to both male and female), think again. Look at yourself in the mirror first before you make your decision. Are you really that perfect to choose or judge someone just by solely focusing on that issue??
*Oh yea...I've totally forgotten to upload my 3 days, 2 nights trip's pics here. Guess I'm a real pig who's lazy to edit the photos! =P
So, when I read that article, it got me thinking again. Isn't it unfair that a girl should remain a fresh flower but the same thing doesn't appear to the male population? The article included surveys carried out on a few blokes and most of them prefer their future wife to be a virgin. Oh please don't get me wrong. It's not about the issue of deflowering. It's about the men's opinions. Yes...I believe there are still many good men out there (oh really?) who won't go around and simply deflower innocent girls BUT there are LOTS of men who do that.
Oh come one, let's just be realistic ok! It's like...if a man fcuks around, then isn't it ridiculous that he still expects his other half to be a virgin? If you men really want a fresh blossom, then you shouldn't be sleeping around. Well, does that make any sense? It's like... if every guy does that, as in fcuking around, where else can we ever find fresh flowers??? Hmm...unless the girls opt for the plastic surgeries (Heard of Vaginoplasty, Labiaplasty and Hymenoplasty?) to reconstruct the whole thing but that's a different case already.
Nowadays, it seems that the younger generation doesn't even need to fall in love to be deflowered, so to speak. Try asking a young school girl whether it's about dignity or an opportunity when it comes to the flower issue...you'll be shocked to hear what she says! So, is preserving the flower still an issue? Well, I know it's still a taboo to religious groups and certain people, and I wouldn't want to stress on that. My question is, why is it that nobody seems to care whether the blokes are still fresh or not when it comes to this matter? It could be a real big issue if anyone ever finds out about a girl who's not a fresh blossom anymore. But, does anyone make any noise if the guy they've known for ages is not a virgin anymore? The truth is nobody cares. Some would even encourage or prefer her man to be an "experienced" one. Now, isn't that a clear discrimination towards the ladies?
So, is the flower issue important to you? Some would argue that it's best to leave the past alone if there's future with their significant other half. Well, I'm not saying that the flower issue isn't important. It's just that, before you remind yourself about your choice of whether to choose a fresh flower or not (applicable to both male and female), think again. Look at yourself in the mirror first before you make your decision. Are you really that perfect to choose or judge someone just by solely focusing on that issue??
*Oh yea...I've totally forgotten to upload my 3 days, 2 nights trip's pics here. Guess I'm a real pig who's lazy to edit the photos! =P
2 comments:
ehm... Girls get ONE egg... Guys get MILLIONS of sperm... Girls 1 month 1 egg... Guys few hours few millions... you do the math keke =P
Aihh...I was talking abt the flower and not the seeds inside! LOL...
Wrong topic ler! *kicks Joe out of this place* =P
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